The science of touch
A clear, human look at why everyday physical contact matters, and why desire doesn’t always have to arrive first.
A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO STAYING LOVERS
Your relationship doesn’t need more date nights.
It might just need more touch.
A Playful Guide to Hands-On Loving Every Day
A funny, practical, no-pressure guide for couples who love each other, like each other, and would rather not become roommates who occasionally kiss goodnight.
Small moments. Real connection. No pressure.
PUT YOUR PHONES DOWN✦PUT YOUR HANDS BACK ON EACH OTHER✦STAY LOVERS, NOT JUST PARTNERS
THE PROBLEM / 01
Remember when you touched each other just because?
Not because sex had been scheduled. Not because it was date night. Not because the dishes were done and nobody had an early meeting.
Then life happened. Work. Kids. Phones. Stress. Aging. Laundry. Netflix. You still love each other, but touching either leads to sex or barely happens at all.
The Daily Handy is about reclaiming everything in between.
OPEN IT UP / 02
A lighthearted look at
the serious business of connecting.
Warm, funny and genuinely useful, with small, low-pressure ways to bring more touch, play and connection into everyday life.
The five-minute mindset
Tiny, low-pressure moments of connection designed to fit inside actual adult lives.
Find each other’s ON switch
Learn each other’s signals, find words for what feels good, and bring anticipation back into ordinary life.
The Daily Intimacy Menu
Build your own menu of Appetizers, Mains, Desserts, Sides and a Secret Menu, based on what works for you.
The Touch Lab
One-minute routines, morning rituals, public touch, weekend adventures, experiments and challenges you can actually try.
When life & bodies change
A warm, realistic approach to stress, mismatched desire, aging and imperfect bodies, without declaring intimacy over.
STEAL THIS FROM THE BOOK / 03
The
60-second
challenge
Put your phones down. Pick one. Set a timer, or don’t.
The Shoulder Reset
Hands on shoulders. Gentle pressure. Slow circles. Finish by running your hands down their arms.
The Face Frame
Cup their face. Stroke their cheekbones with your thumbs. Look at each other. Kiss wherever feels right.
The Hand Ritual
Take their hand in both of yours. Massage their palm. Trace their fingers. Kiss the back of their hand.
ONE MINUTE. No agenda. No requirement that it lead anywhere.
HONESTLY? / 04
This book may be
for you if…
01
You adore your partner but sometimes feel like you jointly operate a small logistics company.
02
‘We should have sex tonight’ has somehow become the least sexy sentence imaginable.
03
You remember being more playful together.
04
Your libidos don’t always consult one another before making plans.
05
You want more intimacy without adding emotional homework to the to-do list.
06
Your bodies aren’t 25 anymore, and you have no desire to pretend otherwise.
You still think your partner is hot.
You just occasionally forget to demonstrate it.
A LITTLE SOMETHING FOR YOU / 05
Less scrolling.
More “come here.”
Two free ways to get a little closer. No email needed. Just download, keep, and try together.
Meet The Daily Handy
Read Chapter 1, Touch Changes Everything, meet Juliet’s voice, and try the Twenty-Second Hello together.
DOWNLOAD THE FREE CHAPTER →PDF · Cover and complete first chapter · 7.7 MBFour excuses to get closer
A shoulder rub, a slow kiss, a little hand-holding, and a kitchen dance. Four printable coupons from the book, ready to offer each other.
DOWNLOAD THE FREE COUPONS →PDF · One printable page · Print single-sidedYour PDF opens or downloads in your browser. Save it for later, or print it for your own personal use. The complete coupon collection comes with the book.
CHOOSE YOUR EDITION / 06
Find your way
back to each other.
Start reading now with the Kindle edition on Amazon. Prefer a book for your nightstand? The paperback is coming soon.
AVAILABLE NOW ON AMAZON
The Kindle Edition
Keep a little inspiration within reach. The illustrated ebook for Kindle devices and the Kindle app, including your phone or tablet.
$7.99 USD
Available now · Digital edition
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LEAVE IT SOMEWHERE SUGGESTIVE
The Paperback
For your nightstand, your partner, or that friend who appreciates a good nudge. Color cover with black-and-white illustrations inside.
Coming soon to Amazon
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